25 before 25

   New Year is often the time where people set ‘generic goals’, that whilst they may have the best intentions and utmost motivation, they rarely seem to achieve in full. This year however, there has been a surge of popularity regarding long term goals. The 30 goals to achieve before reaching 30, has been promoted by various you tubers and bloggers.

   However as I am almost 22, I wanted to set goals that involved a shorter time period, and therefore decided to set myself 25 goals before I turned 25. I began by separating the goals into three topics:

January 2018 Wants

   So after a break of I don’t want to admit how long, I’ve decided to give this blog business another whirl. I’ve since married my best friend, visited the most beautiful places, furnished our first home together, changed jobs, achieved my childhood dream of having my very own horse, nurtured two beautiful abandoned kittens and adopted them into our family. It’s not all been perfect, but I think I’m finally in the position where all is calm, and I know exactly where I’m heading J I’ve recently set myself 25 goals to achieve before I’m 25, and I really recommend anyone else do so. I might do a post about it soon, if anyone’s interested? But to get into the swing of these again here are my current January 2018 wants:


It's a big bizarre really, being stuck in a rut of uncertainty.

Really I have everything going for me, and have so much to be excited for. I am engaged to my best friend, I get to see him everyday. I changed jobs, reduced my hours, increased my wage. I should be happier, but I keep wanting more than what I have.

I want more money. I want more time for myself. I want to be in a busier city, I want to have more friends, I want to be more stylish, I want to be more unique, I want to be emotionally stronger, I want to have done the things I thought I would have done years ago.

I once heard that life is full of regrets, but I also once heard that you should live your life without regrets.

This year I want to change my outlook on life. I've always been a half full kind of gal with life, but with myself I'm half empty. I am so sure of myself, yet I'm so unsure of who I want to be?